samspade111

Kink is a foundational part of my life - it's not my entire life, but it's one of the things that makes me feel real and whole. There's a certain feeling of freedom and release that comes from it that enables many other aspect of my life.

I'm here for community and to find a playmate/partner. I like that there is the 'Hedonist' option for self-identification, as, while I am Dominant, it's more about fun, exploration and connection for me than any particular role.

As my tagline suggests, I love the intellectual/interpersonal dynamics of kink - nothing's more attractive than a dirty mind and dirty talk is a very big turn-on. I'm not into protocol and ritual as a general matter but they do operate soft of as formalized dirty talk and thus are interesting.