MistressServe

I am a voluptuous, dominant woman interested in exploring BDSM with a submissive man. After considering a BDSM relationship for the last 6 months, and feel ready to materialize my fantasies. Ultimately, my goal is a long term D/s female lead relationship. All my relationships so far have been vanilla. I have gone to a very slow process of gathering clues on my preferences, which may have been overlooked and repressed for not being the norm. Recently, I was able to put this clues together and realized that nothing is stoping me from living the life that I want but myself. In my last few relationships, specially my last one, I often fantasized about having more power and control. I even attempted to implement it, but for a FLR to be successful, a woman has to have the right kind of man. I am very interested in orgasm control and would love to experiment with my partner with a chastity device. Behind closed door, I would love to do obedience training, and use a strap-on coupled with humiliation. I confess, these all sound very exciting to me :P But although I feel a strong inclination to try all these, I don't know how I will actually feel at the time of the action. I intent to maintain a self-critical and reflective attitude to adjusting my style based on what works and what doesn't work for me. I know that my preference will be highly affected by my partner and his reactions, because my BDSM condition is still very malleable.

Forced sex, most forms of bondage & restraint, wax, CP & discipline, leather, boot/trainer licking, hoods & gags, breath control, enforced chastity, private/public humiliation & display, tit torture, cock & ball torture, electricity, shaving (body and head), sweat & raunch, piss (on you and in you), fisting, kidnap/abduction/rape scenes, slave training, domination & control, ownership.